Man, talk about the rumor mill lately. 

Everyone seems to have an opnion on what one of our friends is choosing to do with her life (if you don't know who I am talking about, then you don't know her).  All-be-it the situation she is in SUCKS, and I am the first person to say it isn't the right path, but really it is none of my Fing business if I am not going to do anything to help the situation and just want to bitch about it publicly

Why be so creul to someone you know is already hurting and can't find their way?  Do you think it makes the situation better, do you think it helps them figure out where they are?  Well if you do, you are retarded, because it doesn't.

Don't get me wrong, self preservation is top of mind for everyone, but to preserve yourself you don't have to beat others down.  You can make the choice to not involove yourself with someone who is making the wrong choices with thier life, but does that mean you have to make sure everyone else feels the same way about that person as you do?  To me a friend is a friend.  Of course some people come and go, but I am old enough now to know that those that go sometimes come back, and even if they don't, me speaking out of turn and harassing them verbally doesn't make one bit of difference.

Basically, in my opnion, if you don't like someone that is your opnion, you don't need to share it unless you are trying to solve a problem.  If you are done with someone why do you waste your time tearing them down... obviously you still care, and if you still care, again, why tear them down?  It is a broken cycle that never ends, and if that is the type of person you are, well, I choose not to be around YOU!

We all know she is a good person at heart.  We all know what she is capable of and who she really is when she is herself.  She is the type of friend that would have stode in front of a bus to save someone she loved and wouldn't think for 2 seconds about it.  Now that bus is headed towards her at full speed and all you people are doing is giving it more gas to accelorate.  Please people, be supportive, remember who she was and why you were her friend to begin with.  If enough people show her they love her, instead of validating her fears that everyone hates her, well she might just have a chance of getting out of her rut.

I am working on finding a facility to help her.  If you are interested in being a part of that help, I welcome the mail.  If you aren't then please at least stop making the situation worse!!!!!!!!!